Trans women are intelligent and very lively people to relate with. When you want a relationship, friendship or one-night stand with a trans woman, you need to know how to get their attention.
Choosing the right topics to discuss will go a long way in revealing who you are and what your interests are. You will need to introduce topics that are interactive and that appeals to them.
Stories, anecdotes, and personal interests shared by both partners
When discussing with a trans woman, you will need to talk about stories and anecdotes which both of you can relate with. There are several interesting stories which can be historical and societal in nature. Ensure you have a full grasp of anything you want to discuss in order to keep it going.
When you notice they aren’t following the story, you might want to switch to another. The aim of discussions is to get both partners learning from one another.
Recent events and common challenges that the trans woman may have faced
Another interesting topic to discuss is about latest news and events that are happening. What this implies is that you need to be current about latest news and gossips. Trans women love and intelligent person who knows how to hold a conversation.
Moreover, you also need to dig deeper into what challenges a trans woman has faced, and how it was overcome. You could ask about how she was able to cope with the victimization and weird looks thrown by people close to her.
Exchange of opinions, you can ask her about national and international news
When talking with a trans woman, you should also ask her about her opinion on the news. It could be political, religious or educational; just get her talking about how she feels about how things are going.
Don’t be judgmental when she states her opinion, just let her say her mind and be open to her thoughts. Because no one is an island of knowledge, these topics will help both of you to have a different perspective about how things should be.
Future Prospects for your relationship
Knowing what her thoughts are about your relationship is important. It’s important to define your desires and what both of you want from the beginning. If she just wants casual friendship, sex, or to get married, let her stay so.
When both of you are on the same page, it makes for an easy decision. At this stage, you can let her know that you like her and want to see her again.
Talk about past relationships if she is open to discussing them
This is a pretty complicated topic, however, there is no harm bringing up topics relating to past relationship. Sometimes, it’s best when you know where a trans woman is coming from, so you will know how to deal with some issues.
However, you should not force her if she isn’t ready to open up, because many people take their time before discussing such issues with others. Also, note that if her last relationship wasn’t a good experience, she might not like to discuss it.